4 tips for travelling with an older family member


Most people dream of travelling during retirement. You can finally get to see the places on your bucket list and have the freedom to explore. You won’t need to consider work or school holidays. While this kind of lifestyle is possible for almost anyone willing to do a little planning, it can be complicated if you also care for an elderly parent or another family member. 

Before you decide that you’ll never be able to take that holiday, consider if you can take your loved one with you. It will require a little more planning and flexibility. But it can be an excellent way to make lasting memories with your loved ones and will be worth the extra effort.

Grab your travel guide and use these four tips to plan your next getaway:

Plan extra time in your itinerary

If you are used to planning your itinerary down to the minute and bouncing in between activities all day and evening, you’ll want to slow the pace a bit and plan extra time to accommodate your older guests. Assume the car trip will take additional time with more breaks or schedule direct flights to avoid long layovers and lots of walking. Be sure to involve everyone in the group in the planning process, too! Don’t assume that older family members won’t want to do some of the same activities you enjoy – they might just surprise you by sharing an interest or hobby you weren’t aware they had. 

An elderly couple enjoying a paddle in the sea.
Image by Ri Butov from Pixabay

Take turns with other family members

Not every activity or sight-seeing adventure will need to include your entire group. Schedule an early morning breakfast for everyone, and then help your loved ones get settled for an outdoor bird-watching session while you take a vigorous hike. Or head out to dinner as a group and then allow your guests to settle in for a quiet evening while you enjoy a cocktail or show. This strategy will also help your travel budget remain realistic and affordable for everyone. 

A multi-generational holiday can give you a completely new perspective on a destination.

Consult a doctor before you make a plan

Before you book flights or hotels, ask your relative to check with their doctor to get the all-clear for the trip. Travelling can be stressful for everyone but especially so for older adults and those with other health concerns. If you get the okay from the doctor, make sure you have an insurance plan for medical care while you’re travelling, access to plenty of their medication, and first-aid training for the unexpected.  You should also check things like hearing aid batteries or glasses.

Be prepared to handle any concerns the doctor may have and accept that not every trip is suitable for all ages and abilities. Alleviate any guilt you might have about travelling without your loved one by arranging private respite care from a company like https://primecarers.co.uk Sometimes the best caregivers are the ones who also give themselves a break to rest and refresh. 

Set realistic expectations

It’s essential to be realistic heading into your trip so that everyone can avoid disappointment later. You may have to modify your usual holiday plans but try to select activities that you can all enjoy. Nowadays a lot of attractions are working very hard to provide support for disabled visitors and their carers. Here are some suggestions for mobility friendly attractions to visit in the U.K.

At the end of the day, it’s always worth the cost and planning to have a memorable travel experience – especially when shared with the people you love. Don’t forget to document your trip with lots of photos, a travel journal, or a video log and create a treasure for the whole family to enjoy when you return.


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3 responses to “4 tips for travelling with an older family member”

  1. Last autumn we booked an accessible cottage to take my mum away for Christmas – a chance to get over the terrible year 2020 had been and look forward to a better 2021. Ha ha. We are now on our fourth potential date – I really thought the third would work, we should have been there this week, but Glasgow remains in Level 3 and we can’t leave it. Anyway, what you say chimes with our plans. We don’t expect to do much, just to relax together.

    • I thought of you when I heard Glasgow had gone back to tier 3. At one stage last year one end of our street was in tier 2 and the other in tier 3.